That deep...really???

While in church, on different occasions, I have experience the phrase, "It ain't that deep." People assume that if it's something that wouldn't phase them, then it's not that serious. If it's something that's of the normal, like a joke, (whether they believe or not that it's gone to far), then it ain't that deep....
Well, can anybody explain to me__WHAT IS THAT DEEP???
I hear to many times "it ain't that deep", "it ain't that deep!"
If it ain't that deep, then what is?...
If someone hurts your feelings in anyway
and they think your suppose to be okay
then it ain't that deep...
If someone swings and hits you and you begin to complain
they just say "it wasn't that deep", like they felt the pain....
What if someone takes something you wanted so bad, you throw a fit and cry
all they say is "it ain't that deep" and then they'll sit and sigh
um...excuse me for asking....but who the hell are 'they' ???
and
why do they think that their of any importance
Are they the same ones who tried to slander our race~
spit in our face~
and say WE caught the case....
Or are they the ones who beat us,
"said" they freed us
but still hung us in trees...
Or they maybe the ones who took our pride, our dignity, and our respect
Then they got upset when we became too correct....
ALL WHILE SAYING "IT AIN'T THAT DEEP"
If it ain't that deep then i dojn't know what is....
what makes them any difference from us today...
why?...cause we're "friends'
we know each other to well...is that it????....
it shouldn't be...
With friends like that, who needs enemies....
uuuuuuugggggggghhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's not right....WE say and do these things because they are the norms
but everytime it's utter it's as if to say "we know how you feel on the inside, you say it all the time, and your so sensitive..."
why, do i have to be too sensitive...
whatever happen to not crossing the line...



FOOD 4 THOUGHT~~They told Jesus, through actions, that all his suffering and pain, wasn't that deep...was it that fact that they thought they were so correct, that kept Him moving, or the fact that He knew they were so wrong, that in that split moment everything they thought wasn't that deep would turn around on them and bring so much turmoil for them...
One can only wonder....
but i'm trying to think